This is the third post in a series about ways that I have
missed the mark as a pastor. It is a response to several articles about why
young adults are leaving the church. You can begin here
if you want some background to this current article.
I’m sorry for the way I deceive myself and others about the
real reasons for evangelism. Honestly, my evangelism has a lot to do with
recruiting people to share the burden of ministry with their time, talent and
treasures.
I am an introverted Lutheran of Scandinavian and German
descent. Evangelism is not something I do eagerly. Or often. I just can’t seem
to engage a stranger in a discussion about something as deeply personal as
faith. And yet Jesus commands his disciples to go and make more disciples. (Matthew
28)
The way that I’ve done this over the years is to adopt a Field of Dreams
approach to evangelism: Build it and they will come. I have focused my time on
developing inspiring worship, engaging classes and programs, and fun fellowship
activities. Then I employ “bridge events” that encourage congregation members
to invite friends to “come and see” in the hope that they will want to become a
part of the congregation.
I have begun to see that this type of evangelism is all about
recruiting people to become members of the congregation (see yesterday’s post When
Faithful Looks Like Me). The true reasons for my congregation’s evangelical
efforts are revealed when we speak with muted hope about prospective new people
who will help us do the work and support the congregation’s programs with
financial gifts. Now there is nothing wrong with inviting people to invest their
time and treasures in ministry. The underlying hope, however, is that someone will take my place, do my work
and pay my share. We want more people involved so we don’t have to do as much.
It’s taken me 20 years to see it but my approach to evangelism
creates an addictive cycle: I create programs and worship designed to get
people to join the church. More people in the pews equals more money in the
offering plate. More money the plate means more resources to hire staff and
create new programs and better worship. Investing in programs and worship draws
more people. It just keeps going.
If another organization invited me to join them
with thinly-veiled promises of fellowship and fun and then expected me to joyfully
hand over two or more hours every week and a percentage of my paycheck for the
rest of my life I would be very suspicious. Yet here I am doing that very thing.
So how do I keep Jesus’ command to make disciples without
selfish, ulterior motives? What does evangelism look like in a church that isn’t
trying to fill the pews and offering plates? Is it even possible?
My gut instinct is that evangelism has to do with showing
people, with my words and actions, how close the kingdom of God is to this life.
It’s about caring for people without regard to getting something in return. It’s
more about the way I live than about where I belong. In fact, it actually begins to look like ministry and service, not recruiting.
I was exposed to a approach in my studies, called Appreciative Inquiry: http://appreciativeinquiry.case.edu/
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Great article: Recruiting for Christ.
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